I feel like on an individual level I’m a great person to hang out with and get to know because I always try to make people feel really good about just being themselves and not worrying about what anyone else or society thinks, but on a general level I’m just a really negative and angry person and I don’t know why anyone is friends with me…
“When you feel perpetually unmotivated, you start questioning your existence in an unhealthy way; everything becomes a pseudo intellectual question you have no interest in responding whatsoever. This whole process becomes your very skin and it does not merely affect you; it actually defines you. So, you see yourself as a shadowy figure unworthy of developing interest, unworthy of wondering about the world - profoundly unworthy in every sense and deeply absent in your very presence.”—Ingmar Bergman (via perfect)
People become attractive over time as you get to know them. Someone who you once felt completely neutral towards can make your stomach do somersaults. It’s not that they were not good looking to begin with, it’s just that things happened which made your conscience ease up and your heart changed. Good character can contribute to how someone perceives you.
“Move. As far as you can, as much as you can. Across the ocean, or simply across the river. Walk in someone else’s shoes or at least eat their food. Open your mind, get off the couch, move.”—Anthony Bourdain (via skeletales)
“The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward. Also, a lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.”—
Terri Conley, professor of psychology and women’s studies at the University of Michigan ( link )
And they don’t want you. Tough cookie.
In order to be good in bed, you have to prioritize what your partner likes, feels, and wants which means you have to see them as a person, first, in order to understand that they have feelings, wants, and thoughts and aren’t just a walking and talking sex toy. But dudes who are complaining about the “friend zone” don’t see women as anything BUT a walking, talking sex toy that they should be able to stick their dick into any time they want.
Have you ever just looked at someone and thought, “I really love you”. They’re just talking or humming or watching a movie or reading a book or laughing or something, and there’s something about them in that moment that makes you think, “I just really love you”
“Maybe you can afford to wait. Maybe for you there’s a tomorrow. Maybe for you there’s one thousand tomorrows, or three thousand, or ten, so much time you can bathe in it, roll around it, let it slide like coins through you fingers. So much time you can waste it.
But for some of us there’s only today. And the truth is, you never really know.”—Lauren Oliver (via kushandwizdom)
“You can’t spend the rest of your life being afraid of people rejecting you, and you have to start by not rejecting yourself, you don’t deserve it. People can either accept you for who you are or they can fuck off”—anonymous (via kushandwizdom)
what pisses me off is when girls are literally sexist towards their own gender. in my civics class we were asked why we never had a female president and all the girls said it was because we pms. wtf? wtf is that shit? and then when girls say that other girls shouldnt participate in no shave november its like? wtf? WHAT THE FUCK?????